Hey- I have been listening to this awesome podcast from Dawn Davenport. She wrote the The Complete Book on International Adoption which was the first book we turned too when we started considering all of this stuff. She has an great podcast for both adoptive families and folks struggling with infertility. I really suggest you check it out and pass it along to anyone who is interested-or has a friend or family who are going through this stuff! You can also find her in itunes- just search for Dawn Davenport and it will come up.